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Taking someone across state line
« on: January 03, 2013, 07:57:58 PM »

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My question is if a man who is 18 and some of his friends all decide they want to go to Florida during spring break and the guys want to take some of their girlfriends with them and lets say they are 16, can they get into trouble for taking them across state line? 1 of the girls her parents are getting a divorce and her mom says she doesn't mind if her daughter goes, Do they still need the dads permission to go or is it legal if only the mom says it is ok? or is it best they leave the girlfriends behind? Don't want to see anyone go to jail for taking anyone across state line.
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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #1 on: January 03, 2013, 08:59:13 PM »
I don't know the legal answer but only bad can come from a 16 year old going to FL with some 18 year old young men.  What the heck is her mother thinking? 
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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #2 on: January 04, 2013, 03:13:51 AM »
not sure but I dont want to see any of them kids get into any trouble, luckily not all of them have girlfriends they want to take only a couple want to but sure will dampen the ones who say it is ok if it turns out that it isnt.
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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #3 on: January 04, 2013, 03:32:22 AM »
Why take a chance.  They boys can really have a better time if they leave the girls behind.  YOu know how girls can mess up a good thing.  LOL
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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #4 on: January 04, 2013, 05:18:19 AM »
lol yeah but I have no say in this situation
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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #5 on: January 04, 2013, 03:19:05 PM »
I am assuming that you are the mother of one of the "young" boys. Why don't you advise your son to leave them behind?

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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #6 on: January 04, 2013, 10:22:16 PM »
I am assuming that you are the mother of one of the "young" boys. Why don't you advise your son to leave them behind?

he is one that is wanting to go yes but no girlfriend with him, but will be the one driving and that is why i want to know, since he is the driver and it is his car
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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #7 on: January 05, 2013, 12:14:34 AM »
Since he is the one driving he can make the decision  who or who doesn't go in his car. Just my opinion but I say leave the minor girls behind. 

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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #8 on: January 05, 2013, 03:48:43 AM »
It's only asking for trouble if they go.  I wish my daughter would have asked me, when she was 16, if she could go to FL with a bunch of boys.  Yeah right!!!!!!  Not no, but hell no!!!!!
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Re: Taking someone across stae line
« Reply #9 on: January 05, 2013, 04:12:26 AM »
Only problems will happen with 18 year old men and 16 year old girls. What is the laws in all the states they will go thru? Someone could very easily end up in jail and on a sex offender list for life. Is it worth it, I think not. I was 18 some 40 years ago and I tell you playing in the ocean and making sand castles in not what is going to happen.
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Re: Taking someone across state line
« Reply #10 on: January 05, 2013, 04:57:39 AM »
yes I do understand what everyone is saying, But the thing is that is why I posted this on here, If it is not legal then I can show them this to prove to them that they are wrong, but if I am wrong then I have said all I can to them. I just want to know what the law is on taking any age person across state line?
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Re: Taking someone across state line
« Reply #11 on: January 05, 2013, 06:25:00 AM »
I can't give you a definite answer because they will be going through a number of different states with different laws.  I think the best answer is unless both parents agree to allowing the 16 year old to go, then they should not take her.
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Re: Taking someone across state line
« Reply #12 on: January 05, 2013, 04:04:16 PM »
Whose name is on the title of the car they are driving?  Whose name is the insurance in?  If it's yours or your husband then you  have every right to say who can go in the car.  If they decide to take them anyway, I would get written permission from the parents (both) before they leave the state of Missouri.
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Re: Taking someone across state line
« Reply #13 on: January 05, 2013, 04:54:51 PM »
 
 
Spring break is mostly for college kids, not high school kids.When you come to Florida it doesn't matter whoses premission you have you have to follow the rules of the local police and they are getting more strict
then they used to be. they check ID's on a regular basic and if your caught drinking under age you go straight to jail with a large fine.
I myself wouldn't let a 16 year old go with anyone because their will be trouble and the  $%$#@%^ ...JMO
 
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Re: Taking someone across state line
« Reply #14 on: January 06, 2013, 02:56:41 AM »
well if any 16 year old go wont be with my son, I told him that no way is it smart to take any girl across state line unless the parent was with them, the car is in my son and his dads name both and insurance is in all our names. I know my son is a typical teenage who has done some stupid things but I feel that he still has a pretty good head on his shoulders and as I told him the number 1 thing to remember is I am not ready to be a real grandma just yet and was to see him be able to do something with his life and I think he is going to do the right things, like he says to me his goals right now are finishing his senior year and then going to Nevada mo to go to the welding institute and then see where things go from there...keeping my fingers crossed lol
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